Couples who’s home for the new year a month had finally decided the new family – Yunnan tourism netw-www.souhu.com

Couples who’s home for the new year a month had finally decided the new family of Yunnan tourism in the network news review because the Spring Festival is back where parents home problems, the man and his wife Liu Hongxing on New Year’s Day quarrel, who cannot persuade, after a quarrel with his wife, he got in bed, every night to sleep on the sofa in the living room, a week later, the couple failed to reach an agreement. Yesterday, after an hour of family meeting, Liu Hongxing’s parents made a decision: this year’s Spring Festival, neither in the city, nor in the countryside, a seven people go to Yunnan tourism, after consultation, Liu Hongxing’s father-in-law also agreed. The family decided to go to Yunnan Tourism Festival meeting yesterday morning, Liu Hongxing came to the unit, colleagues gathered, "brother, early know you want to sleep on the couch, I went to the house". When he didn’t respond, his colleagues opened their cell phones and showed him the story of the quarrel between his wife and his parents in the Spring Festival in Chengdu, and the picture was the picture of him sleeping on the sofa in the living room. "Gee, there’s nothing wrong with that. I’ve gone to business." Liu Hongxing grabbed the bag and rushed out of the office, and the colleagues laughed. Leaving the unit, Liu Hongxing on the phone to Chengdu business daily reports carefully read two times, he lamented: "wife and parents of the two sides of the idea, he first knew so clearly.". In addition, netizens thousands of thread and comment, he also carefully read one by one, "a lot of people gave advice, I want to see (friends comments) there is no better way". Go home at noon, his red eyes and livid face parents made Liu Hongxing a little at a loss: "Dad, how do you come here?" But parents did not pay attention to him, after lunch, parents just to his wife and red bayberry called together, talked about this event and the arrangements for the spring festival. "For an hour, I was cursed.". Finally, the parents decided to go to Yunnan for the Spring Festival this year, and they also made a call to their parents. The mother in law agreed, and the wife agreed. I wouldn’t sleep on the sofa again." Liu Hongxing didn’t want to say more about the conversation. As to why he was going to Yunnan, Liu Hongxing explained that because she was in Yunnan, she used to be able to book a reservation. Parents also reflect on or to consider the children’s feelings of Liu Hongxing’s cousin Liu Ming (a pseudonym) said, in February 3rd the uncle aunt saw the newspaper is very furious, had asked for his advice, he gave the opinion that can go to a country year. He said, when the uncle heard this word did not say anything, aunt constantly advised uncle, where in the year, or to consider the feelings of the dolls, why should the doll so difficult?. "See, they may realize that they have done something wrong, too." And the parents of Yangmei on the news of Liu Hongxing and Yangmei did not know, and constantly asked Liu Hongxing couple, do not be angry for this thing. "We just want them to come back for dinner, and know what to do with them." For Yunnan, Yang Mei mom and dad have never been to, but they said that this is his personally called to show me"

夫妻为过年回谁家吵一个月 最终决定全家云南旅游-中新网   新闻回顾   因春节回哪边父母家过年的问题,仁寿男子刘洪兴和妻子从元旦起争吵,谁也说服不了谁,在大吵一架之后,他愤然与妻子分床而居,每晚在客厅沙发上睡觉,一周过去,夫妻俩仍未能达成一致。   昨日,开了一个小时的家庭会议后,刘洪兴的父母做出决定:今年春节,既不在城里过,也不在乡下过,一家七人去云南旅游,经过协商,刘洪兴的岳父岳母也初步同意。   家庭会议决定   春节一起去云南旅游   昨日一早,刘洪兴刚到单位,同事们就围了过来,“兄弟,早晓得你要睡沙发,就到我屋头来嘛”。见他没反应过来,同事们点开手机,给他看了成都商报关于他和妻子因回哪边父母家过年吵架的报道,而图片正是他睡在客厅沙发上的画面。“哎呀,哪家没点事,我跑业务去了。”刘洪兴抓起包就冲出办公室,同事们笑成一团。   离开单位,刘洪兴在手机上把成都商报的报道仔细看了两遍,他感叹:妻子和两边父母的想法,他第一次知道得如此清楚。   此外,网友们的几千条跟帖和评论,他也一一仔细看了,“很多人给出了建议,我想看看(网友评论里)有没有比较好的办法”。   中午回到家,妻子红红的眼睛和父母铁青的脸让刘洪兴有点不知所措:“爸妈,你们怎么过来了?”但父母没有理会他,吃完午饭,父母才把他和妻子杨梅叫到了一起,说起了这次的事情和过春节的安排。   “说了一个小时,把我骂惨了。最后父母决定今年春节一家人去云南旅游过年,他们给杨梅爸妈也打了电话,岳父岳母初步同意了,妻子也就同意了,我也不会再睡沙发了。”对于谈话内容,刘洪兴不愿多说,至于为何要去云南,刘洪兴解释,因为姑妈在云南,过去吃住她可以帮忙预订。   父母也在反思   还是要考虑孩子们的感受   刘洪兴的堂哥刘明(化名)表示,2月3日叔叔阿姨看到报纸后很冒火,也曾征求过他的意见,当时他给的意见是,可以去乡下过一个年。他说,当时叔叔听了这话没有多说什么,阿姨不断劝叔叔,年在哪儿过还是要考虑一下娃娃们的感受,何必把娃娃们整得那么为难嘛。“看得出,他们可能意识到自己也有做得不妥当的地方。”   而杨梅的父母对刘洪兴和杨梅一事上了新闻尚不知情,不断嘱咐刘洪兴夫妇,不要再为这件事情生气了。“我们也就是想他们回来吃个饭,哪晓得让他们这样(为难)。”   对于云南,杨梅的爸爸妈妈从未去过,但他们表示,这是亲家亲自打电话表示的意思,人家也是一番好心,不好再拒绝了。   过年回谁家? 上万网友激辩给建议   2月3日,刘洪兴夫妇的故事经成都商报报道后,被多家新闻媒体转载,上万网友激辩此事。截至昨日19时,仅在腾讯新闻上,就有12831名网友参与投票,除了表示深有同感的,还有不少网友给出中肯的建议。网友“阿肯”建议,一开始就应该给双方父母说清楚,轮着过春节,一家一年,一碗水端平;网友“罗汉松”则建议,可以一家一顿,中午在一家,晚上在一家,以示公平。但这个建议被很多网友认为只适合两家人离得近的。还有不少网友提出:可以折中,两边都不去,大家一起出去旅游过年。   过年回谁家?   家家都有“难念的经”   ■分开过年 各回各家各陪各妈   这个春节,将成为苏克和妻子张蓉结婚三年首个没在一起过的春节。苏克是乐山人,妻子张蓉是金堂人,两人平时住在成都,春节安排一般都是春节前去一次金堂的家,春节在乐山过,大年初二,苏克和张蓉再回娘家。   今年春节,苏克原计划到乐山过,因为今年是孩子出生后的第一个春节,理应到自己老家过,好几年没见面的姐姐也从外省回来了。但张蓉觉得,带着孩子很不方便。无奈之下,双方决定今年各回各家,各找各妈。“苏克春节、大年初一在乐山,初二再到我们这儿来。”张蓉说。   ■结婚四年 终于带媳妇回家过年   自结婚以来,自贡小伙游兵(化名)已连续三年在岳父家吃年夜饭,自己父母家一次未回,心里很是愧疚。   游兵称,岳父称家中还有年近八旬的母亲,便要求他和妻子每年除夕回家吃年夜饭,陪老人过春节,口气相当强硬。今年,经过商量,游兵和老婆已说服岳父,理由很简单:一是年年都在女方家,没有照顾到男方感受,需要回男方家过年;二是邀请岳父岳母一家一起到男方家吃年夜饭,感受下男方的热情。   成都商报记者 蒋麟 袁伟   专家声音   三方面   间接导致冲突   在绵阳师范学院社会学老师蒋洪看来,“过年回谁家”听起来确实不是个大事,但分析起来还是不难找原因。蒋洪分析,发生争吵基本上都是像刘洪兴夫妇这样的年轻夫妇,对应的背景有以下几个方面:一是都是独生子女,无法两全;其次,现在年轻人工作半径越来越大,跨地区婚姻也越来越多,而春节只有一天,想在一天内跑两个家庭,不得不考虑现实问题。此外,社会进步带来的女性权益意识增强,女性不甘心“嫁鸡随鸡”,在家中的话语权比例越来越重,也折射出了夫妻之间越来越追求男女平等问题。“这三方面间接导致了一些冲突。”相关的主题文章: